HOMELas Vegas Weddings Friends & Fights
Friends
Of course you love each other to bits and why else would you be getting married in Las Vegas? But being with the love of your life doesn't mean you wont need friends or relationships outside of your Las Vegas Marriage.
As a married couple, your interactions with friends will function on two levels: as a couple and as an individual. You need to establish whether you have the same social needs: if you like throwing dinner parties once a week but your husband prefers quiet nights at home, you need to talk about it. The same goes for girls' or boys' nights-out: how much time are you will to give each other to spend with friends outside of your home life? And what are your expectations once you have children? If you don't talk about these issues before you get married, they can wind up being sources of resentment at a later stage.
Fights
Everyone has their own way of dealing with difficult situations. Some people like to scream and shout, while others prefer to deal with issues quietly and calmly. Most of us learn to deal with conflict as children. Unfortunately, we often learn counter-productive or destructive ways of tackling problems - like throwing a tantrum or ignoring an issue, hoping it will go away.
How do you and your partner approach problems? Are you able to talk about things, or do you let anger simmer until it comes bubbling to the surface? As a couple, you need to figure out how to deal with important issues in a way that's constructive - without resorting to violence, putting the other person down, or walking away from a problem.
Learn how to talk to each other in a way that is aimed at getting positive results but, at the same time, trust each other enough to be honest about what you are feeling.